My husband has cheated on me. I have also forgiven. He stayed there for a few months now. But now again he avoids me. He is not interested in having sex with me. Neither does it give me any financial or emotional sleep. I don't understand what to do. He told me once that he was not interested in me. Abhi says yes but as always only with excuses. But she had feelings for having an affair. What should I do? But if I leave, if I leave you, I have a child.. I have a daughter.

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My husband has cheated on me. I have also forgiven. He stayed there for a few months now. But now again he avoids me. He is not interested in having sex with me. Neither does it give me any financial or emotional sleep. I don't understand what to do. He told me once that he was not interested in me. Abhi says yes but as always only with excuses. But she had feelings for having an affair. What should I do? But if I leave,    if I leave you, I have a child.. I have a daughter.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

hy sandy1290 though i dont have right to speak in your personal matter but i still want to say it that if their is no love ,no affection no respect an you knows it well just because of your daughter how much you will suffer .this is yoyr life if he can live his life by hurting you than why you cant live with your daughter alone.
please think about your self take a hard step it will give little pain to u but in future you can breath happily stay happy an can live better with your daughter.

Anonymous · Answer

I am going to say the hard truth and you already know it. There is no working around who the person is. ( A snake always remains one, no matter how much milk is fed to it). 
Listen, it would be wise to leave and start a new life with your daughter and it might be difficult however I believe it's the sensible thing to do. 
Take your time, figure out on your own, build your finances and self esteem meanwhile. Keep growing.

Coach Gujral · Answer

Hi Sandy1290, this sounds like a very difficult situation you are in.
i would like to know the age of your daughter, are you financially secure.
Think about it thoroughly before taking any decision, is there anything why you are staying, and the pros and cons of staying. As for your husband, it might be difficult to change him if he has been doing it repeatedly,  so don't have any hope on this.
please take a thoughtful decision...my prayers are with you.

Harpreet Kaur · Answer

Hi Sandy1290.
Life has come with a very simple manual.
Just Prioririse yourself ,your feeling while taking any decision and then you see the changes takes place around you(it includes your daughter and family as well)will all be good and transform your life into a beautiful place.
Until you don't choose a decision that makes you happy no one around you can be happy.You should join my live session about how to build healthy boundaries and can talk to me.

Sriradha Podder · Answer

Hi..
hope you are well! I can understand the kind of pain and mental conflict you are going through. Before taking any decision you need to make yourself feel mentally and emotionally strong. If you are able to  have a peace of mind then you can think carefully and support your daughter. Being financially independent is also a key. Please focus on these areas. Post this you will see that you are able to make better life choices.

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