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by Mona Singh on Jan 21, 2023

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I recently heard something very beautiful. It was about how a gentleman should behave open doors, carry things,pull out chairs. Not because women can't but because they shouldn't. Its a classic piece. But I think the women who are overly independent are made just because they weren't treated right and now they don't need someone for these things. How about we start treating girls around us right so they can expect the bare minimum from someone. What do y'all think about it ???

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answered 414 days ago

Yeah, you are right. I also feel that now girls' expectations from their boys are increasing. And like my boyfriend is doing this for me, how sweet, isn't it? And misguiding other girls also😒😒

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answered 407 days ago

True so... Women at times I feel have double standards.. they want to be equal and at the same time need this extra treatment also. Not that it's wrong but if you think you are equal why do you want some one to open the doorbfir you..🙂

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bit that expectation will kill them as well. it's better to be independent from an early age . However man neither want to treat them like a women nor an independent women. Those are very rare who will treat a women rightly and for them my dear will never matter if she is independent or not and that's make a real man

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